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Sounds Familiar | Reviewer: Alice | 9/7/08 so when i first heard this song it was like deja vu or something! i say that because i had a friend, he was also a boyfriend at one point, that got heavily mixed up with drugs. like our freshman year of high school he started experimenting with things and he was very good at hiding it especially when we were all to naive to see it. when we started dating i started to notice how much his behavior was changing. in like our junior year i couldn't deal with his erratic behavior and how abusive emotionally he had become. at that point i realized something was very wrong. he didn't really know that i was pretty sure as to what was going on. it just was so unfair. he wasn't only hurting himself anymore, he was hurting everyone around him. but you know in high school you think you're inlove and everything. but it wasn't just that, he had always been my BEST friend first and foremost. so when he caught on that i knew what was going on, he sat down with me to talk about it. that's why this song is so crazy! it was like our exact conversation. he said "why can't you just hate me? it would be so much easier on me if you hated me too much to stay or to care. so please just forget about me! please just start hating me, i mean look at what i've done to you?" it was like the hardest thing to hear and have to accept from someone i loved that much. i mean i wanted to hate him. i wanted to be able to walk away and never look back because of everything he’d done or did not do. but it just wasn't possible. i didn't just love him as my boyfriend, he was my friend someone i'd loved my whole life. so that night i came to a decision that i just could not handle being his girlfriend anymore, he was right, too much had happened. but i loved him too much to just walk away from him. he was my BEST friend like i said before. so from that point on it became about helping him get better. which he eventually did. so this song pretty much was like hearing ty talk to me in music. which was pretty crazy! blue october you are phenomenal! i hope you know that! cause this song isn't just about drugs and addiction it's also about the love that it takes to get over them. to want to get better. if justin didn't have the love of his mother or the love he had for her he wouldn't have tried to be sober at all let alone three months. because love isn't just a word used for stupid relationships but its what you do for someone. cause Justin loved his mother enough to try to get sober at all and she loved him too much to let him fall apart, to lose him forever. Hate me | Reviewer: mandy | 8/25/08 Even if this is a song about drugs, to me it's about love I loved this boy, I was a virgin, he used me for sex I confused sex with love, then somewhere along the way he fell in love with me he cheated, a lot hurt me a lot raped me quite a few times too and it hurt, everything hurt, he ruined my life, after a year and a half of his betrayal I ended it. It took me until he got some other girl pregnant to end it though. Even now, I love him I always will he called the other day to apologize, he's way to late though I told him I still loved him. everything about this song reminds me of him of our relationship and how after everything he's done and everything that's happened, I still love him. and miss him. A Song a Truth | Reviewer: Anonymous | 8/24/08 This song hits home for me. My sister was actually the one whom tried to help me cope with my drug addiction. I had nothing but love for her; but, the love for the drugs was more. It took years for me to recover, and yet I still crave. I always will. "I'm sober now for three whole months, it's on accomplshment that you helped me with..." This peice of the song was more than a home hitter. My sister practically made me go into a recovery program, and thus I wasn't cured, but on the road to a full turn around. It feels like my life story | Reviewer: Allana Mayer | 8/8/08 this song... it reminds me so much of how i feel. life is a struggle and i keep hurting the ones i love. i push them away for there own good. i dont want to hurt them more. pushing them away is all i can do. suicide has crossed my mind so many times but someone has always been there to snap me out of it. they refuse to listen to my pleas to leave. this song has so much depth and is so... so intouch with the lives of thousands. so many of us feel this way and this one song, one song that expresses this feeling, this feeling of loneliness and hate for ourselves. this song can be constrewed as drug-related, love, suicide and depression. it reaches all of us. i will always have a place in my broken heart for this song. It's not about losing love, it's about drug addiction. | Reviewer: Anonymous | 3/19/08 This is a post from a few years ago. This is what Justin was singing about, putting his mother thru the pain of drug abuse. "I couldn't stop crying when I first heard Hate Me, and I'm crying now as I write this review. I lost my son to an accidental drug overdose 11 months ago. He was 34. I tried for 16 years to save him from himself, but I couldn't. I miss him so much! How nice to hear a song with such deep and meaningful lyrics." ex | Reviewer: musicfreak4ever | 3/9/08 I just broke up with my boyfriend of 1 year. He brought me more trouble than kisses. I wish I could hate him for everything he did, but I can't. He doesn't deserve my love anymore, but hating him won't solve anything. The more I think about it, the more I wish I could hate him! Even though I no I can't. wake up | Reviewer: michael | 2/19/08 wake up you self centered crybabies this is not about two people breaking up its a song justin furstenfeld wrote to his mother about her unconditional love for him in spite of his chronic drug abuse Relates to me. | Reviewer: Anonymous | 2/16/08 My ex sent this song to me recently. It made me cry because I can relate so much. I was wondering what he was trying to say to me, but then he just disappeared and I haven't seen him since. We still don't know why we broke up, but I still love him and I think he still loved me, yet something's stopping him from asking me out again. Maybe he thinks I hate him? And therefore he communicates this by sending me this song? I do have reason to hate him, because the breakup was his fault. He said he will be leaving for a while to sort out some family issues and wouldn't want anyone to mess with his emotions even further (he was in a big mess), so he told me it'd be better if we split up for a while, though I kept insisting there's no need and i'll be waiting for him no matter what happens. Then I met him hanging out with some other girl and he came up to me and said ''Meet my ex..'' and so on. I was so shocked I had tears in my eyes and just wanted to die. After such a long and intense relationship it's extremely hard to accept the fact that he's doesn't belong to you anymore. Apparently he was on morphine or something stupid like that at the time so he didn't realise what he was doing. I told him I didn't want to talk to him ever again. Somehow after 2 months we got back together, but he was still with that girl. Somehow he ended up cheating on her with me although I hasn't too keen on that.. But then I decided to play a dirty trick on him and tell her everything. It's been a year now, and it's still almost the only thing I can think about. bReakups | Reviewer: Joanna | 2/6/08 i never heard of this song till today. when i wanted to find a song for me and my exboyfriend, wanted to give him a video of forgiveness. really relate to me. i disloyal to him on november 07 and we broke up because of that. still love him. really 100% true it's just that im not a man. 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